I was talking to my boyfriend the other day and i found out that he has done a**l with one of his past relationships. Which for some reason I am absolutely grossed out about. i had the hardest time going down on him and he is my first boyfriend to ever give oral to. In the past I have had some problems with doing that to other men because i find it gross and i do not think i am very good at it. I do it because he likes it. Well after I found out he had done a**l with another girl I look at him in disgust I do not know what to do. I cant wrap my head around it. I know it was in his past and I know I’m over reacting however I need help understanding what to do. I don’t know how to handle this situation. Please help!!