I’ve broken the no contact rule and she dumped me again. Need help please

HomeCategory: BreakupsI’ve broken the no contact rule and she dumped me again. Need help please
oklm asked 3 years ago

Basically my gf dumped me cos she was all the time feeling insecure n jaleous and kept accusing me of cheating. Then I started the NC and it was working perfectly, one week after (yesterday) she contacted my friend cos she needed me to get my stuffs at hers, when my friend called me I called her straight away and then she convinced me by crying and everything. I think that’s where I failed by letting my emotions lead me and then I started telling her how I love her and I would like to fix everything, didn’t blame here and both of us were very happy. This morning she rang me and asked me to come and get my stuffs. Didn’t understand nothing. Does the NC could still helps me? Help me please it hurts so much. Thanks for ur comments.

7 Answers
oliverjones answered 3 years ago

I don’t understand the question

ojejones202065 replied 4 months ago

Seems pretty simple to me

oklm answered 3 years ago

Actually after the break up I applied the NC rule and it worked properly but I called her after 1 week (initially for 2 or 3 weeks) and then she dumped me again.

oliverjones answered 3 years ago

If move on and find someone who appreciates you.

Reynolds answered 3 years ago

Its better to move on.

Evolzippo answered 3 years ago

It sounds to me like you are stuck in the “bargaining phase” of your grief process. Which is actually a good sign of progress for your emotional recovery. 
One thing worth noting, is that it sounds like if you follow some kind of no-contact rule, it’ll make her miss you, and that will bring her back.
I have felt the kind of despair you are going through. Just know that if there were any chance of working things out, she knows you want to. She’s well informed of your hope for resolution.
One fact that really needs to be faced, is that if you two were really compatible, you’d still be together. It’s likely that you really were at some point, but grew apart. There’s no going back.
This won’t always hurt this bad. Your heart will heal. Just focus on mourning this loss. Don’t worry about anything but letting your sadness work it’s way out. It’ll feel like it’s going to take longer than it really will. But don’t try to speed-grieve. Our emotions don’t work that way
And that’s the best advice I can give.

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ojejones202065 answered 4 months ago

I feel your pain man